Emily came to me because she felt she was repeating the same relationship story again and again.
“Why do I always attract partners who are emotionally unavailable?” she asked.

Her key numbers:

• Life Path 2 - Partnership, sensitivity, cooperation

• Expression 8 - Power, ambition, control

• Soul Urge 2 - A deep need for emotional safety and harmony

• Personal Year 7 - A year of inner work and reflection

Her chart showed a clear inner conflict. Her 2 energy wanted connection and emotional closeness, but her 8 Expression had built strong walls of control and independence. She attracted partners who mirrored the part of her that does not fully open.

In the session we did three things:

1. I explained her “love pattern” in numbers, so she could see it as a map, not as a personal failure.

2. We looked at the 7 Personal Year as a perfect time to stop chasing relationships and instead understand herself.

3. We created a “relationship checklist” based on her numbers: what her 2 really needs, and what her 8 must learn to soften.

A few weeks later Emily told me she had ended a situation ship that clearly did not match her checklist. For the first time, she felt she was choosing from a place of self knowledge, not from fear of being alone.